I don't know what advice I can give, but I think that avoiding emotional entanglement here is fine. If they are willing to pretend this hasn't happened, OK. If they are not, bail out every time it comes up (that you can bail out on) with nice excuses like "not feeling well", "got to run" etc.
There is a time to fight, but it is much better when you are not financially dependent on the other party and can just withdraw your participation and cut them out of your life (at least temporarily).
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Date: 2019-03-18 12:57 am (UTC)I don't know what advice I can give, but I think that avoiding emotional entanglement here is fine. If they are willing to pretend this hasn't happened, OK. If they are not, bail out every time it comes up (that you can bail out on) with nice excuses like "not feeling well", "got to run" etc.
There is a time to fight, but it is much better when you are not financially dependent on the other party and can just withdraw your participation and cut them out of your life (at least temporarily).
(This is Ekate BTW).